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  • This is the post I never imagined writing.

    Loss, Lament, and Legacy

    Hello, friends. It has been a long time, hasn’t it? Several months ago, I started to write a post to explain why I hadn’t written in so long. What I […]

  • If you've wondered where I am and why I haven't been writing, read this post. Our family has had a big goodbye, a big hello, and a big new role.

    Goodbye and Hello

    If you've wondered where I am and why I haven't been writing, read this post. Our family has had a big goodbye, a big hello, and a big new role.

  • If it's hard to make sexual changes, look for ways to practice in nonsexual contexts.

    Practice, Practice, Practice

    If it's hard to make sexual changes, look for ways to practice in nonsexual contexts.

  • Join me in the Honeycomb & Spice community for a study of Juli Slattery's book God, Sex, and Your Marriage. We'll start the week of February 25 and wrap up in May.

    Join Me for a Study!

    Join me in the Honeycomb & Spice community for a study of Juli Slattery's book God, Sex, and Your Marriage. We'll start the week of February 25 and wrap up in May.

  • Doggy style can be a great position, but it has a not-so-great name. So let's try something new!

    Let’s Ditch Doggy Style

    Doggy style can be a great position, but it has a not-so-great name. So let's try something new!

  • When is the best time for birthday sex for your husband? Obviously it's on his birthday—but bedtime might not be the best time for it.

    The Best Time for Birthday Sex

    When is the best time for birthday sex for your husband? Obviously it's on his birthday—but bedtime might not be the best time for it.

  • The purpose of the pendulum is to seek equilibrium and balance, not to just swing from one extreme to the other. Likewise, making changes in marriage should involve the pursuit of balance in God's truth, not just doing something differently.

    The Purpose of the Pendulum

    The purpose of the pendulum is to seek equilibrium and balance, not to just swing from one extreme to the other. Likewise, making changes in marriage should involve the pursuit of balance in God's truth, not just doing something differently.

  • Have you prayed for your sex life? If you don't know what to say, here's a prayer you can use. And you can learn more about a couple studies I'll be leading this year!

    Pray for Your Sex Life

    Have you prayed for your sex life? If you don't know what to say, here's a prayer you can use. And you can learn more about a couple studies I'll be leading this year!

  • Consider the messages you learned about marriage and sex while you were growing up. Was it all gloom and doom and self-sacrifice? Or was your learning filled with hope and joy?

    Stained Glass

    Consider the messages you learned about marriage and sex while you were growing up. Was it all gloom and doom and self-sacrifice? Or was your learning filled with hope and joy?

  • Sometimes it’s just hard to show up and do all the work to grow and change, especially when you’re dealing with other things in life. When this happens, it’s okay to pause for a bit while building yourself back to the point where you are restored enough to proceed again.

    In the Shadow of His Wings

    Sometimes it’s just hard to show up and do all the work to grow and change, especially when you’re dealing with other things in life. When this happens, it’s okay to pause for a bit while building yourself back to the point where you are restored enough to proceed again.

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Make me a clean heart, O God: and renew a right spirit within me. ~ Psalm 51:10