Choosing Growth

  • If it's hard to make sexual changes, look for ways to practice in nonsexual contexts.

    Practice, Practice, Practice

    If it's hard to make sexual changes, look for ways to practice in nonsexual contexts.

  • Join me in the Honeycomb & Spice community for a study of Juli Slattery's book God, Sex, and Your Marriage. We'll start the week of February 25 and wrap up in May.

    Join Me for a Study!

    Join me in the Honeycomb & Spice community for a study of Juli Slattery's book God, Sex, and Your Marriage. We'll start the week of February 25 and wrap up in May.

  • When is the best time for birthday sex for your husband? Obviously it's on his birthday—but bedtime might not be the best time for it.

    The Best Time for Birthday Sex

    When is the best time for birthday sex for your husband? Obviously it's on his birthday—but bedtime might not be the best time for it.

  • The purpose of the pendulum is to seek equilibrium and balance, not to just swing from one extreme to the other. Likewise, making changes in marriage should involve the pursuit of balance in God's truth, not just doing something differently.

    The Purpose of the Pendulum

    The purpose of the pendulum is to seek equilibrium and balance, not to just swing from one extreme to the other. Likewise, making changes in marriage should involve the pursuit of balance in God's truth, not just doing something differently.

  • Consider the messages you learned about marriage and sex while you were growing up. Was it all gloom and doom and self-sacrifice? Or was your learning filled with hope and joy?

    Stained Glass

    Consider the messages you learned about marriage and sex while you were growing up. Was it all gloom and doom and self-sacrifice? Or was your learning filled with hope and joy?

  • Sometimes it’s just hard to show up and do all the work to grow and change, especially when you’re dealing with other things in life. When this happens, it’s okay to pause for a bit while building yourself back to the point where you are restored enough to proceed again.

    In the Shadow of His Wings

    Sometimes it’s just hard to show up and do all the work to grow and change, especially when you’re dealing with other things in life. When this happens, it’s okay to pause for a bit while building yourself back to the point where you are restored enough to proceed again.

  • There is no one right way to revive your sexuality and your sexual intimacy. In fact, you may find that there are lots of right ways that work for you.

    Approach Your Sex Life Like It’s a Jigsaw Puzzle

    There is no one right way to revive your sexuality and your sexual intimacy. In fact, you may find that there are lots of right ways that work for you.

  • The question “Am I normal?” isn’t the best question to ask, but it often points us to areas that need our attention.

    Are You Normal?

    The question “Am I normal?” isn’t the best question to ask, but it often points us to areas that need our attention.

  • Working on yourself is always worth doing. And if you and your husband are both generally good-willed people, it just might be good for your marriage too.

    Work on Yourself (Even if Your Husband Is the Problem)

    Working on yourself is always worth doing. And if you and your husband are both generally good-willed people, it just might be good for your marriage too.

  • Reach out and ask for help as you address your sexual struggles. You don’t have to walk the journey alone.

    Ask for Help on Your Sexual Journey

    Reach out and ask for help as you address your sexual struggles. You don’t have to walk the journey alone.

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