Making Changes

  • This is the post I never imagined writing.

    Loss, Lament, and Legacy

    Hello, friends. It has been a long time, hasn’t it? Several months ago, I started to write a post to explain why I hadn’t written in so long. What I […]

  • If you've wondered where I am and why I haven't been writing, read this post. Our family has had a big goodbye, a big hello, and a big new role.

    Goodbye and Hello

    If you've wondered where I am and why I haven't been writing, read this post. Our family has had a big goodbye, a big hello, and a big new role.

  • If it's hard to make sexual changes, look for ways to practice in nonsexual contexts.

    Practice, Practice, Practice

    If it's hard to make sexual changes, look for ways to practice in nonsexual contexts.

  • When is the best time for birthday sex for your husband? Obviously it's on his birthday—but bedtime might not be the best time for it.

    The Best Time for Birthday Sex

    When is the best time for birthday sex for your husband? Obviously it's on his birthday—but bedtime might not be the best time for it.

  • The purpose of the pendulum is to seek equilibrium and balance, not to just swing from one extreme to the other. Likewise, making changes in marriage should involve the pursuit of balance in God's truth, not just doing something differently.

    The Purpose of the Pendulum

    The purpose of the pendulum is to seek equilibrium and balance, not to just swing from one extreme to the other. Likewise, making changes in marriage should involve the pursuit of balance in God's truth, not just doing something differently.

  • Have you prayed for your sex life? If you don't know what to say, here's a prayer you can use. And you can learn more about a couple studies I'll be leading this year!

    Pray for Your Sex Life

    Have you prayed for your sex life? If you don't know what to say, here's a prayer you can use. And you can learn more about a couple studies I'll be leading this year!

  • Sometimes it’s just hard to show up and do all the work to grow and change, especially when you’re dealing with other things in life. When this happens, it’s okay to pause for a bit while building yourself back to the point where you are restored enough to proceed again.

    In the Shadow of His Wings

    Sometimes it’s just hard to show up and do all the work to grow and change, especially when you’re dealing with other things in life. When this happens, it’s okay to pause for a bit while building yourself back to the point where you are restored enough to proceed again.

  • There is no one right way to revive your sexuality and your sexual intimacy. In fact, you may find that there are lots of right ways that work for you.

    Approach Your Sex Life Like It’s a Jigsaw Puzzle

    There is no one right way to revive your sexuality and your sexual intimacy. In fact, you may find that there are lots of right ways that work for you.

  • Reach out and ask for help as you address your sexual struggles. You don’t have to walk the journey alone.

    Ask for Help on Your Sexual Journey

    Reach out and ask for help as you address your sexual struggles. You don’t have to walk the journey alone.

  • If you want to work on your sex life but don’t know where to start, you’re not alone! You’ll find four general areas where you can get started, along with lots of action steps.

    “I Want to Work on Our Sex Life. Where Do I Start?”

    If you want to work on your sex life but don’t know where to start, you’re not alone! You’ll find four general areas where you can get started, along with lots of action steps.

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Make me a clean heart, O God: and renew a right spirit within me. ~ Psalm 51:10