Changing Your Perspective

  • If it's hard to make sexual changes, look for ways to practice in nonsexual contexts.

    Practice, Practice, Practice

    If it's hard to make sexual changes, look for ways to practice in nonsexual contexts.

  • Join me in the Honeycomb & Spice community for a study of Juli Slattery's book God, Sex, and Your Marriage. We'll start the week of February 25 and wrap up in May.

    Join Me for a Study!

    Join me in the Honeycomb & Spice community for a study of Juli Slattery's book God, Sex, and Your Marriage. We'll start the week of February 25 and wrap up in May.

  • The purpose of the pendulum is to seek equilibrium and balance, not to just swing from one extreme to the other. Likewise, making changes in marriage should involve the pursuit of balance in God's truth, not just doing something differently.

    The Purpose of the Pendulum

    The purpose of the pendulum is to seek equilibrium and balance, not to just swing from one extreme to the other. Likewise, making changes in marriage should involve the pursuit of balance in God's truth, not just doing something differently.

  • Have you prayed for your sex life? If you don't know what to say, here's a prayer you can use. And you can learn more about a couple studies I'll be leading this year!

    Pray for Your Sex Life

    Have you prayed for your sex life? If you don't know what to say, here's a prayer you can use. And you can learn more about a couple studies I'll be leading this year!

  • Consider the messages you learned about marriage and sex while you were growing up. Was it all gloom and doom and self-sacrifice? Or was your learning filled with hope and joy?

    Stained Glass

    Consider the messages you learned about marriage and sex while you were growing up. Was it all gloom and doom and self-sacrifice? Or was your learning filled with hope and joy?

  • Sometimes it’s just hard to show up and do all the work to grow and change, especially when you’re dealing with other things in life. When this happens, it’s okay to pause for a bit while building yourself back to the point where you are restored enough to proceed again.

    In the Shadow of His Wings

    Sometimes it’s just hard to show up and do all the work to grow and change, especially when you’re dealing with other things in life. When this happens, it’s okay to pause for a bit while building yourself back to the point where you are restored enough to proceed again.

  • There is no one right way to revive your sexuality and your sexual intimacy. In fact, you may find that there are lots of right ways that work for you.

    Approach Your Sex Life Like It’s a Jigsaw Puzzle

    There is no one right way to revive your sexuality and your sexual intimacy. In fact, you may find that there are lots of right ways that work for you.

  • Is there something you’ve been struggling with or something that keeps you from enjoying your time with your husband? Yeah? Me too. In this post, I apply some lessons I've learned from dealing with a Christmas ornament I made many years ago.

    The Beauty in the Bell

    Is there something you’ve been struggling with or something that keeps you from enjoying your time with your husband? Yeah? Me too. In this post, I apply some lessons I've learned from dealing with a Christmas ornament I made many years ago.

  • The question “Am I normal?” isn’t the best question to ask, but it often points us to areas that need our attention.

    Are You Normal?

    The question “Am I normal?” isn’t the best question to ask, but it often points us to areas that need our attention.

  • How can you manage a sex life if you have a chronic illness? Christian wives share their best advice with you.

    Sex Advice for Wives with Chronic Illness

    How can you manage a sex life if you have a chronic illness? Christian wives share their best advice with you.

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